Read below for more … Most men are living life in a constant state of push. Push through work. Push through stress. Push through sex. Fast mind. Tight body. Shallow breath. It looks like productivity or confidence on the outside — but underneath, the body is often braced, guarded, and
We are conditioned to ‘do’ sex long before we learn how to be in intimacy. From a young age, sex is framed as performance … something to achieve, complete, succeed at. A beginning, a middle, an end. A result. Get it up. Get them off. Finish strong. Very little is
A ‘New’ Practice for 2026 When people hear the word edging, they think of pushing right up to the limit, holding right at the brink and staying there for as long as possible. White knuckles. Control. Holding themselves back from release and restraint. That’s the Western misunderstanding. True edging
What My Time in the Adult Arena and My Relationships Taught Me PART I I spent years ‘DOING’ I knew how to show up, how to participate and how to please. Even on autopilot I could just DO DO DO. Even with eyes closed … presence optional. As some of
A Rebel Ramble …. A Rumble with Your Pleasure Power Let’s get one thing straight … most men are taught to get off, not tune in. Quick. Quiet. Don’t make a mess. Don’t feel too much. And years later… they wonder why their body has forgotten how to play
Let’s be really real … most men are wired to chase the high of ejaculation. That moment of release, the “ahhh” where the tension breaks and the body collapses into temporary satisfaction. But why does it feel so addictive? And why, after the high, do so many men feel drained,
You love your partner. You’ve built up a wonderful life together. You think they’re hot. But for some reason, something is lacking in the bedroom department. Sex these days feels a bit mechanical; it’s all a bit like doing the dishes or “let’s get this over with so we can
Hollywood may have normalised the idea that females need to have penetrative sex in order to orgasm. The reality is very different, and most women will tell you that in order to orgasm, they require more stimulation. The clitoris is where the most pleasure comes from for women. The clitoris
Yes …What Is a Sex & Intimacy Coach—And What do they do and why You Might Need One When I tell people I’m a Sex and Intimacy Coach, I often get that tilted-head look. “Oh, so you’re like a therapist?” Not quite. “OK, so… what do you actually do?” Let’s
LETS REHASH GUYS …Here’s 5 Fabulous reasons to give your partner a Sensual Tantric Massage 1. It Deepens Intimacy 2. It Awakens Sexual Energy Without Pressure 3. It Breaks the Routine 4. You Learn to Give & Receive 5. It Unleashes Dormant Desires So lets move on from the last
Before I get into guiding you. Here’s 5 Fabulous reasons to give your partner a Sensual Tantric Massage 1. It Deepens Intimacy Beyond Words Tantric massage bypasses the mind and goes straight to the heart and body. It creates a space of presence where lovers feel seen and held without needing
Let’s get real for a second. If you’re finishing sooner than you want to, whether it’s every time or just here and there and especially when the pressure’s on … you’re not alone. Premature Ejaculation (PE) affects way more men than anyone’s openly talking about. But here’s the part most
Part III of the “Back on the Horse” Series Let’s get honest: After a breakup, there’s usually a moment where you ask yourself: “Am I ready to date again?” But behind that, there’s often a deeper question: “Am I ready to trust again?” “Am I ready to be vulnerable again?”
The “Get Back on the Horse” Series – Part II There’s a moment after a breakup that can hit harder than the silence in your bedroom, harder than the absence of her laugh, her texts, her scent on the sheets. It’s the realisation that even after all the pain… she
Part I of the “Get Back on the Horse” Series Hey Guys, Let’s be real … breakups aren’t bloody easy. Whether your relationship ended last week or five years ago, old love has a way of lingering. The memories, the patterns, and the questions you continue to ask yourself can
One of the truisms of life is that it doesn’t come with an operator’s handbook. It requires experimentation, continuous learning, making and learning from mistakes and constantly adjusting our behaviours and beliefs as we go based on what we experience and learn. This process we call LIFE! In few areas is this lack
Sometimes guys feel guilt, anxiety and stress as a result of their experiences with PE. which then becomes a major contributor to ongoing PE. It’s like a downward spiral. Arriving too early is more common than you may think and there is also a lot of stigma associated with talking
I believe working on your sex life can help improve your life. What I’ve found with my clients is that it can have an amazing knock-on effect to many other areas of your life, such as increased intimacy with your partner, a more positive outlook in your work life and
