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This work isn’t for everyone … anyone chasing a quick thrill. If you’re here just looking for a good time Intimacy Coaching is not for you. The Rebel Method is for those who are serious about learning, healing and breaking through blocks. Whether it’s Erection Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejac, confidenc issues or any of the other struggles that hold you back from being the lover you know you could be.
You may have found us on some adult sites but this does not mean we offer ‘anything to anyone’ As we don’t, a Consult is required first … time will be needed to see if we are the right fit and to work out IF AND WHAT will suit you and what path and approach is best.
Everyone’s circumstance is different so our approach will be different. Some offerings are theory, online, practical, some hands on practical, simulated practical but lets be crystal clear … this is not escort work.
We take this seriously. We have a method … The Rebel Method … and it works. Its a process not for quick sexual gratification, visual stimulation or being entertained. Intimacy Coaching is focused on rewiring patterns, deepening presence and stepping into real confidence … all of this takes time. Transformation takes time and commitment. And like anything worth mastering … you’ll need to crawl, then walk before jogging is even considered. Rome wasn’t built in a day … The strongest foundations take time to build so does the foundation of your intimacy.
If you’re ready to invest your time, energy and money into becoming that man reach out to us.
To get an ideal of some of the things that can be covered …. go to Programs.
Just wanting to dip your toes in and experience Tantra … go to Experiences.
There’s no one-size-fits-all … because you are uniquely you.
The way I work is never cookie-cutter. I draw on different modalities (sometimes just me, sometimes with amazing practitioners I’ve trained), so what we do together is shaped around you.
The only way to know if you and I are the right fit is to book a Consult.
That’s our time to:
• See if working with me (or one of my colleagues) feels right for you
• Explore which session or program might be the best match
• Map out the when, where, and how of moving forward together
You’ve got two options:
Consult via Zoom or phone — $160 (wherever you are in the world)
Consult in person — $250 (for those who prefer face-to-face energy)
Bookings are secured with a deposit so once it’s locked in, it’s yours.
Learning from home is easy and very effective. Especially beneficial for those with confidence issues, as you can start practicing exercises on your own first. The most common questions I get asked are:
Q. Do you visually stimulate
A. No. I coach/teach practices for those wanting to last longer, feel more confident and be a better lover. I don’t offer a Webcam service … Your gratification is not my concern and would be counterproductive.
Q. How do the online courses work? Don’t I need to practice with someone?
A. Sure, (great) sex with another human is definitely the goal. But first you will need to practice things on your own in order to feel comfortable with your body and the practices and increase your confidence. Just like you don’t jump in the ocean before learning how to swim, it’s best to get a few coaching lessons and solo practice time on the clock before you try to get down and jiggy with it. If change is required, knowledge of how to change is essential. And it starts with you!
Booking Info for Coaching & Programs:
Because I offer many different modalities of learning and it is all based on individual needs and circumstances, the only way to know what is going to suit you, is to organise a Consult.
As you can imagine, I can only work extensively with so many and its very important we must be a good fit to work with each other so if you are wanting Coaching there is no bypassing a Consult.
HOW A CONSULT IS TAKEN:
*Consult via zoom/phone
*Consult in Person near Caloundra or sometimes Brisbane.
*Once you have decided what type of Consult you prefer you can book via my BOOK NOW PAGE.
Experiences:
Jump to the ‘Experiences’ menu button and peruse the different sessions. Book via the CLICK TO GET STARTED BUTTON or sms/email me if you prefer to pay in another way.
LET’S MAKE THE MOST OF OUR TIME:
*Please make sure you have read all my FAQs … all my commonly asked questions.
*Explore each session on the ‘Experiences’ page and some of the things covered on the ‘Programs’ page.
*There is also lots of blogs (rousings) and my socials.
Im more than happy to have a brief chat however please be aware that this would not be a Consult.
Q. Do I get to physically ejaculate (and release semen)?
A. There is no goal in Tantra we encourage you to have Energy Orgasms
Q. How is that different to a ‘normal orgasm’?
A. Part of our practice is the tantric method of expanding your sexual energy around your whole body, not to just release it as you would normally but rather to open yourself up to full body pleasure. You will be guided through this process.
Q. What do you mean by ‘normal’?
A. Most men have only ever experienced an anatomically ‘normal’ orgasm. A build up in the groin with a release. Very transactional, and often very quick. To us describing the comparison between a normal or energetic orgasm is like the difference between junk food and a gourmet meal. There is also a difference between ejaculation and orgasm – while ejaculation may be a byproduct of orgasm, it is not absolutely necessary to achieve an orgasm and in fact men often report the best orgasm of their lives through the energetic tantric process.
Q. Why do you offer Energy Orgasm?
A. Energetic orgasm is not only deeply satisfying, but also a reconnection with the body and the syncing of the physical and spiritual aspects of self. Most men, unfortunately, have been conditioned to strive for physical ejaculation above the sexual experience, and this often leads to a disconnect with partners, selfishness in the bedroom, expectation and ultimately performance issues. The common train of thought is “I’ll feel good once I cum” – leading to transactional, selfish sex and short-lived gratification. Sure, you’ll feel good for a bit. But what’s the ripple effect of this kind of exchange? I’m an advocate of helping men expand their knowledge and sexual horizons. Keep doing what you’re doing, and you’ll keep getting what you’re getting – and you’ll miss all the delicious, mind-blowing orgasmic opportunities life has to offer.
Q. So is a normal release or orgasm not good for you?
A. There’s no denying that the high after orgasm feels pretty great, and sometimes a quick release is all that’s required to reinvigorate a man’s lust for life (for a minute). The problem with this is that, like anything that feels really good, it can become addictive. We crave that warm fuzzy feeling and seek it out as a quick fix to make us feel better about a situation or circumstance rather than revering it for the sacred and blissfully special experience that it is. It’s a vicious cycle that I’ve seen way too many times. However, I challenge you to open your mind to what is possible when your mind/body is in sync. When you focus on the journey, not the destination, the results can be truly mind-blowingly amazing. Imagine feeling what you feel in that one moment, in a single location with traditional orgasm, reverberated and sustained through your whole body. By learning to move one of the highest energies frequencies – sexual energy – throughout your body, you can achieve an out of this world, full body orgasm that will change your life.
SNAPSHOT:
Normal Orgasm
~ Feels good for a short time. Like a sneeze.
~ Feels good in your groin
~ Depletes your life force energy
Energy Orgasm
~ Not only feels good but can put you in a long-lasting altered, blissful state of awareness
~ Feels divine throughout your whole body
~ Rejuvenates your body, promotes cellular upgrade and can help heal, balance, release emotions, eliminate emotional, energetic and physical blockages, overcome sexual issues and much more.
Contact me for a session and see for yourself.
Tantra massage is not focused on achieving a specific outcome. Its primary intention, if any, is to awaken and explore arousal energy and circulate it throughout the body, a process that can only be accessed through full surrender and openness to the session.
Tantra unlike a typical “rub and tug” experience that focuses on a quick release, places emphasis on the flow of sexual energy throughout the entire body. As a practice, Tantra encourages non-judgment, so if ejaculation occurs there will be no shame.
With that said, if you’re specifically seeking a release, I would suggest considering the services of an erotic massage therapist. I could give you some tips 😉
CLICK HERE TO READ MY BLOG ON ‘WHY MEN CHASE THE HIGH OF EJACULATION’ you may find it veeerry interesting.
That’s fine.
In person sessions are not the only way to learn, and I now offer a full range of online tutorials. This is also a good way to start to get a feel for if we wish to work/journey together.
I have clients all over the world, so if my services interest you please don’t hesitate to reach out to me via sms, email or by filling in the form here to organise a time to discuss.
Whilst I have a plethora of knowledge and experience across the majority of sexually related topics and am more than happy to have a session with you dedicated to seeking my advice and knowledge … my main area of focus is helping men to overcome issues such as PE and ED. If you are looking for instructional videos I would recommend my affiliate partners BeEducated There’s hundreds of pretty cool ones on anal and kissing etc and I believe you can check them out for free to begin with.
Often this helps if I was to advise you that I’m not a Counsellor nor am I trained to deal with trauma. I can however work in conjunction with therapists. I help mainly men, some women and couples if they are on the same page. The men I assist usually are those lacking in confidence, not much experience, premature ejaculation, erection difficulties, helping also those who are wanting dating advice and some who want to learn about Tantra.
I want to reassure you that what we teach you, we take seriously so, it doesn’t just work like that. Before we move into any practical session, we do need to have a short interview (Consult) with you first. This helps us understand exactly where you’re at and what you’re looking for. Think of it like crawling before you walk and walking before you run …we want to make sure you’ve got the right foundations rather than rushing ahead without the groundwork. It’s all about progression: laying down the basics first, then layering into deeper work.
Keep in mind, I don’t necessarily offer every type of session myself, my focus is on the areas I specialise in. However, I have trusted colleagues who work in different ways, and at times I may suggest that you see them if I feel their style would suit your needs best. That way, you’re always guided by the right person … whether that’s within our sessions or with a trusted referral.