A big pattern I have noticed over the years is that not only do a lot of people lack confidence in the bedroom, but actual confidence in themselves. I’m referring to confidence in speaking your mind, confidence in talking to others, confidence in their physical self. I’m also referring to having the confidence to ask what your partner likes in the bedroom or if you’re single, the confidence to ask women out on dates.
The Safety of Lacking Confidence
Because of lack of confidence, many guys fall into the safety trap of watching porn and seeing escorts. This is many guys feel safe and comfortable. They’re not in an sexual environment where they feel as vulnerable. They’re not necessarily thinking about pleasuring someone else. The focus is on them and this helps them achieve sexual relief. Being intimate with a woman can feel so frightening for some guys that they’d rather than making a move they don’t do anything. These feelings may feel justified because of past experiences. But let me tell you that nothing holds you back more than your own insecurities.
What I know is, is that to truly live life to the fullest, you need to live life unapologetically. The trick to this is accepting and loving yourself wholeheartedly first. You need to accept that there will always be people out there who are better than you. There will always be other guys who are more confident in speaking to women. The first thing you need to do is to stop comparing. When you’re comparing yourself to others, your simply wasting energy. This energy could be better spent on loving on yourself first.
I want you to be able to acknowledge that you are doing the best you can in the given moment. Nobody can argue with that! All the hiccups and embarrassments that you might have had in the past don’t define you. They especially have nothing to do with who you are right now, and the person you choose to become.
Lacking Confidence in Dating
Lots of my clients have been out of the dating scene for a while. Many remark that they have been struggling to get second or even a first date. These knock backs throw their confidence off. Because this kept coming up in different sessions with my clients, I decided to create a Confidence Package to help main gain more confidence. The Confidence Package is tailored for guys who would like to learn dating tips and techniques. I teach you how to please a woman and can provide some tips for your appearance. I created this program so that it can be uniquely tailored depending on what you’d like to get out of it. Interested? I’d love you to keep reading then…
Let’s Get to Know Each Other
Before we kick of the Confidence Package, I’d ask you to for an initial meet and greet so we can get to know each other. I want to find out all the things you get most anxious about when it comes to dating. I’d also like to know what you’d like to get out of the Confidence Package. You tell me what kind of man and lover you want to be, and allow me to work my magic on you!
For men who have been out of the dating scene for a while, my date simulation is a fantastic place to start. I provide heaps of tips on first date etiquette. I’ll even share with you my tried and testing ’12 Steps on Getting a Second Date’. Once you’ve got my tips in your pocket, you will have so much more confidence in asking someone out and going on a date.
How to Please a Woman – Tips and Techniques
If your dates have been going well, you’ll ultimately be entering bedroom territory. This should definitely feel exciting and not scary! Now, I know this is an area lots of guys get nervous about, but you don’t need to be. For those who are nervous and haven’t been intimate with another woman for quite some time, I’m going to help you. I’ll share with you tips and techniques on how to please a woman. Let me tell you, I get great feedback from guys I share my tips with. Once you’ve got a good understanding on how to please a woman, you’ll have much more confidence when things begin heating up in the bedroom. Rather than be nervous, you’ll be excited to try out the new techniques you’ve learnt from me.
Grooming and Style
When you feel good about yourself, you automatically ooze confidence. Grooming and the clothes you wear a great a way to achieve this. When was the last time you tried a new hairstyle or bought a new outfit? Have you been wearing the same cologne for 20 years? If you feel in a rut about the way you look, then it’s time to shake things up a bit! I know this can be quite daunting for guys. You might not have a clue where to even start. I know that the grooming and style world can sometimes seem pretty overwhelming, given how many choices there are.
This is an area I’d love to help you with, if it’s something you’re interested in. From a new haircut, to new wardrobe essentials picked by a professional stylist, to sourcing new grooming products. I would love to help give you the makeover you deserve. What makes me even happier is seeing the newfound confidence that it brings you!
Take the First Step
If you’re feeling a bit bumpy in the dating scene and would love to become the confident man you know deep down you are, then I’d love to hear from you. Remember, the Confidence Package can be tailored exactly to your needs. Confidence starts with you; will you take the first step?