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LETS REHASH GUYS …Here’s 5 Fabulous reasons to give your partner a Sensual Tantric Massage

1. It Deepens Intimacy

2. It Awakens Sexual Energy Without Pressure

3. It Breaks the Routine

4. You Learn to Give & Receive

5. It Unleashes Dormant Desires

So lets move on from the last blog see HERE

 

PART II

 

STEP 4: LOWER BELLY & INNER THIGHS

• Massage the sacral chakra area (lower belly, hips)

• Stroke the inner thighs without touching the genitals just yet—tease and build energy

• Tune into their breathing and arousal cues—go even slower, the slower the better.

 

STEP 5: YONI or LINGAM MASSAGE (Optional & Only with Full Consent)

Yoni (vulva) or Lingam (penis) massage is sacred.  For this guide …its not about orgasm, but awakening energy.

• Ask permission, who knows they may not want to go any further and thats ok for today

• If so proceed with slowness. Use warm oil with permission and intentional touch, firm strokes …. remembering SLOW

• Breathe with them, invite them to breathe with you if they are not and keep eye contact if possible

• Allow emotions, sounds, or energy to flow—hold space with love and don’t try to get them off and if you start to speed up even if they do ….SLOW THE HELL DOWN.

 

STEP 7: COMPLETION & INTEGRATION

• Rest together – whether this is just holding silently or laying beside them

• Place a hand on their heart and thank them (and yourself)

• Offer water, a blanket, or ask what they need

• Don’t rush to ‘end’—let the energy settle naturally. Tantra is goalless.

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BONUS TIPS:

• Breathe deeply together throughout

• Use your voice to guide, moan, or whisper – sound carries a vibration and helps keep the sensual in the room

• Touch is about energy transfer, not just mechanics – step outside of what you would normally do

• It’s not about orgasm—it’s about connection, surrender, and presence.

Learning how to give your partner a Sensual Tantric Massage isnt just about technique … its about presence, creating just a moment in your lives where time can stop and hey the connection can deepen and who knows this could give you the most brownie points EVER for years to come!